Mary

Harmony #103: Four Sightings After A Funeral

Sighting #1 The Women at the Empty Tomb: A Harmonized Resurrection Narrative[1]  (Matthew 28:1-10, Mark 16:7-8, Luke 24:9-11, John 20:1-17)

As the first light of dawn broke on the first day of the week, Mary Magdalene, Mary the mother of James, Salome, Joanna, and other women prepared the spices they had brought to anoint Jesus’ body (Mark 16:1; Luke 24:1).  

Just before they set out, a great earthquake shook the ground, and an angel of the Lord descended from heaven. Dressed in robes white as snow[2], he rolled back the stone from the entrance of the tomb and sat upon it (Matthew 28:2-4). The guards, witnessing this, trembled and became like dead men.

Unaware of the earlier events, the women made their way to the garden, discussing along the way, “Who will roll the stone away from the entrance of the tomb?” (Mark 16:3). As they arrived, they saw that the stone had already been rolled away from the tomb (Mark 16:4; Luke 24:2; John 20:1).  

Bewildered, Mary Magdalene immediately left to inform Peter and John, exclaiming, “They have taken the Lord out of the tomb, and we do not know where they have laid him!” (John 20:2). Meanwhile, the other women entered the tomb and saw two men in dazzling garments sitting where Jesus’ body had been. The women were terrified and bowed their faces to the ground.

One of the angels said, “Do not be afraid. You seek Jesus of Nazareth, who was crucified. He is not here; He has risen, just as He said. Come, see the place where He lay” (Matthew 28:5-6; Mark 16:5-6; Luke 24:4-5). The angels instructed the women to go and tell the disciples, especially Peter, that Jesus was going ahead of them into Galilee (Mark 16:7; Matthew 28:7).

As the women left, still trembling and in awe, Peter and John, alerted by Mary Magdalene, rushed to the tomb. John arrived first but hesitated at the entrance, while Peter went straight in. They saw the linen wrappings lying there, and the cloth that had been on Jesus’ head rolled up separately (John 20:3-7). Astonished, they returned to their homes, still uncertain of what had happened (Luke 24:12; John 20:8-10).

Mary, who had followed them back, remained outside the tomb, weeping. As she looked inside, she saw two angels in white, seated where Jesus’ body had been, one at the head and the other at the foot. [3] They asked her, “Woman, why are you weeping?” She replied, “They have taken my Lord, and I do not know where they have laid Him” (John 20:11-13).  

Turning around, she saw a man standing there whom she assumed was the gardener.[4] When he spoke her name, “Mary,” she recognized Him as Jesus and cried out, “Rabboni!”, or “Teacher” (John 20:14-16). Jesus said, “Do not continue clinging to me, for I have not yet ascended to the Father. Go instead to my brothers and tell them, ‘I am ascending to my Father and your Father, to my God and your God.’” (John 20:17).

As Mary went to deliver the message, Jesus also appeared to the other women on their way back to the city. They took hold of His feet and worshiped Him. Jesus repeated the angel’s instruction: “Do not be afraid. Go and tell My brothers to go to Galilee; there they will see Me” (Matthew 28:9-10).

As the news spread among the disciples and throughout Jerusalem, fear and doubt mingled with a glimmer of hope. The women, the first witnesses, carried the astounding news: “The Lord is risen indeed!” (Luke 24:34).

Note Jesus’ gentleness (“Greetings!”) and reassurance (“Do not be afraid!”). This will continue in the other sightings. He is not showing up in a huge flex of power (at least not as the people would expect the powerful to appear). Oh, he is strong, but he is not pompous, arrogant, and out to get revenge. To quote the title of a song I love, he is simply Jesus, strong and kind.

Many commentators have rightly noted that having women as the first to encounter the risen Jesus - particularly Mary Magdalene, whom he had delivered from demons - is striking in a cultural context where women’s testimonies were undervalued and considered unreliable. Jesus did not choose the powerful and privileged in his culture to be the first witnesses and the first evangelists. He chose the unexpected and overlooked.

It reminds me of how God was revealed last week in the stories of Hagar and Joseph: God cares for those others despise or dismiss. God stays with the powerless, those who are weak in the eyes of others. The God Creed is on display immediately after his resurrection.[5]

 

Sighting #2 Two Men on the Emmaus Road (Lk 24:28-32)

So they drew near to the village to which they were going. He appeared to be going further, but they constrained him, saying, "Stay with us, for it is toward evening and the day is now far spent." So he went in to stay with them.  When he was at table with them, he took the bread, blessed and broke it, and gave it to them. 

And their eyes were opened and they recognized him; and he vanished out of their sight.[6] They said to each other, "Did not our hearts burn within us while he talked to us on the road, while he opened to us the scriptures?"

One of those walking with Jesus was Cleopas, whom tradition says was Jesus’ uncle.[7] Tradition also says that Cleopas was like a father to Jesus after Joseph died. If this is true, that means Jesus left the tomb and immediately found his ‘earthly father,’ perhaps even going to his home to be with him and his wife and to break bread and bless them. I think that’s pretty cool.

The breaking of bread also reminds us of the Last Supper. If the other walker was Luke, I am guessing he had some déjà vu. But apart from that, notice how the risen Lord serves them: he breaks the bread for them. Remember the importance of meals together. They signify fellowship and belonging. They affirm the value and dignity of the people with whom you are eating. Jesus is pleased to be with these people, as “dull and slow of heart” as they were.

 

Sighting #3 The Disciples (John 20:19-23)

On the evening of that first day of the week, when the disciples were together, with the doors locked for fear of the Jewish leaders, Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you!” After he said this, he showed them his hands and side. The disciples were overjoyed when they saw the Lord. 

Again Jesus said, “Peace be with you! As the Father has sent me, I am sending you.” And with that he breathed on them[8] and said, “Receive the Holy Spirit. If you forgive anyone’s sins, their sins are forgiven; if you do not forgive them, they are not forgiven.”[9]

The word for ‘breathe’ is only used once in the New Testament, and that is here. The only other time it is found in the Bible is in the Greek translation of  Genesis 2:7 when God breathed life into Adam. Surely this is not a coincidence. We are supposed to hyperlink to Genesis 2:7.

Remember how the gospel of John started?

“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God… all things were made by him.”

John bookends his Gospel with a shoutout to the beginning.[10] The Creator is in the process of a New Creation, with the Spirit of God from the Second Adam being given to the children of the first Adam. The first time, God gave physical life. The second time, God gives spiritual life.[11] Soon, Jesus will send them on a Great Co-mission with a new command to be fruitful and multiply in a new way: making disciples of Jesus.

 

Sighting #4  Jesus Appears to Thomas (John 20:24-29)

Now Thomas (also known as Didymus), one of the Twelve, was not with the disciples when Jesus came. So the other disciples told him, “We have seen the Lord!” But he said to them, “Unless I see the nail marks in his hands and put my finger where the nails were, and put my hand into his side, I will not believe.” 

A week later his disciples were in the house again, and Thomas was with them. Though the doors were locked, Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you!” Then he said to Thomas, “Put your finger here; see my hands. Reach out your hand and put it into my side. Stop doubting and believe.” 

Thomas said to him, “My Lord and my God!”[12] Then Jesus told him, “Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.”

What about those who find it hard to believe? How will Jesus treat them? Will he be dismissive? Impatient? Angry? Of course not.

Last week, the story of Jacob reminded us that God blesses, not punishes, the wrestler. Jesus patiently meets Thomas in his doubt, mirroring Jesus’ patience with his disciples all throughout the gospels. It turns out Jesus is slow to anger, abounding in mercy and loving kindness.

 

What We Can Learn Today

We, too, often don’t recognize Jesus. In the first two stories, Jesus was not immediately recognized. I wonder how often we don’t recognize Jesus being near to us?

Today this would happen in a different way, of course.  Jesus is with us, all the time. “Bidden or unbidden, God is present,” said Erasmus. Jesus is always walking with us – we just don’t always recognize his presence. I like the chorus of a song called “There Was Jesus”:

“In the waiting, in the searching
In the healing and the hurting
Like a blessing buried in the broken pieces
Every minute, every moment
Where I've been and where I'm going
Even when I didn't know it or couldn't see it
There was Jesus.
[13]

Are we looking for Jesus in our own lives and in the lives of others? Are we attentive to his presence, even when it’s not immediately obvious? Are we looking at our stories – where we were, where we are – and looking to see where Jesus was with us, “compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in loving kindness and faithfulness, and forgiving wickedness, rebellion and sin”?

Jesus brings peace. It’s interesting to me how Jesus over and over keeps saying, “Be at peace.” I was taught that “the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom,” and I am not here to dispute that. It’s just that there is some context that would have been helpful.

 

First, I will contend that ‘fear’ in that context ought to be understood as awe-filled reverence,[14] rather than a call to be terrified of my Heavenly Father. In fact, here’s the whole verse:

“The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is insight.” (Proverbs 9:10)

This verse is saying the same thing twice, just in a different way. That reverential awe comes from knowledge of God, and the insight that awe brings starts us down the path to wisdom. Notice that even if this was about being terrified, it would still be the beginning of insightful wisdom about God, not the end.

John will specifically say in a letter to early Christians that the “phobos” kind of fear (from which we get the word phobia) had no place in our relationship with God:

God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them. This is how love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment: In this world we are like Jesus. There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear (phobos), because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. We love because he first loved us. (1 John 4:16-19)

Jesus shows up after his resurrection, Perfect Love in the flesh, and drives out terror while building up reverence in response to cruciform love. Just like the angels pronounced when he was born, peace follows his favor.

 So I am wondering: in our quest to let Jesus work through us, do we bring peace where we go? That might be resolving conflict or injustice or stopping evil. That is one way to bring peace. It might be that when we show up, people know we aren’t going to create drama. It might be that we are a safe place for people to pour out their lives to us.

It just seems to me that if we are going to be like Jesus, we should be proclaiming the good news that a peacemaker has arrived when we show up as ambassadors of the Prince of Peace. “Thank God the Christians are here! We  were waiting for somebody to bring peace.”

Jesus invites us into Co-mission. Each sighting included a directive: go to Galilee, announce the ascension, continue his mission. These instructions prepared followers of Jesus for their post-resurrection roles.[15] They were commissioned in that they were on co-mission with Jesus.

What is our co-mission with Jesus? Well, there is the Great Commission (we will get to that soon). There is the Sermon on the Mount. There is the ministry of reconciliation (2 Corinthians 5:18-21). Then there is our more personal co-mission with Jesus, where he prepares us for something or someone or some place tailored for us. There is always a ‘go and tell’ that follows ‘whosoever will may come.’ It doesn’t have to be culturally grand. You don’t need a massive event or a huge social media platform. It can be your neighbor, your friend, a co-worker, a family member, a 3rd grader in Kid’s Ministry. But there is always a ‘go and tell.’

Jesus brings transformation. In the accounts we read today, encounters with Jesus shifted people from:

·       Fear to trust

·       Grief to joy

·       doubt to faith

·       confusion to recognition

·       self-preservation to commission

How is Jesus’ ongoing presence (and the presence of the Holy Spirit) transforming us? What has beenmade new? That’s a good testimony for ‘go and tell.’  What is being made new? Hmmm. That’s a good, honest testimony for ‘go and tell.’

If people can’t see Jesus clearly in our lives— compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in loving kindness and faithfulness, and forgiving —are we truly living as ambassadors of the good news of the saving power of a risen Savior? Who around you can tell it’s happening? Are there witnesses around you that can testify on your behalf?

Let’s be Jesus to those around us—present, tangible, transformative—just as Jesus has been for us.


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[1] This is based on Peter Ballard’s harmonization of the accounts in the four gospels. “Harmonizing the Resurrection Accounts.”  Peterballard.org

[2] The earthquake, the angel’s appearance “like lightning,” and white garments remind us of divine appearances (like in Daniel 10:5-6, Ezekiel 1:13-14, Exodus 19:18).

[3] The two angels at the tomb (one at the head, one at the feet) may allude to the cherubim over the ark of the covenant (Exodus 25:18-20), suggesting Jesus’ body as the new locus of God’s presence.

[4] This backdrop evokes the Garden of Eden, where the first Adam failed, leading to humanity's fall. In contrast, Jesus, often referred to as the "Second Adam," rises in a garden, symbolizing the restoration and renewal of creation.

[5] "The LORD, the LORD, the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in loving kindness and faithfulness, maintaining loving kindness to thousands of generations, and forgiving wickedness, rebellion and sin.” (Exodus 34)

[6]He vanished out of their sight. — Probably, during their surprise, he took the opportunity of withdrawing from the place; leaving them to reflect and meditate on what they had heard and seen.” (Adam Clarke)

[7] Probably the ‘Clopas’ whose wife was at the cross with Jesus’ mother, Mary.

[8] “Only here in the New Testament. The act was symbolic, after the manner of the Hebrew prophets. Compare Ezekiel 37:5.” (Vincent’s Word Studies)

[9] “See the notes on Matthew 16:19Matthew 18:18. It is certain God alone can forgive sins; and it would not only be blasphemous, but grossly absurd, to say that any creature could remit the guilt of a transgression which had been committed against the Creator. The apostles received from the Lord the doctrine of reconciliation, and the doctrine of condemnation. They who believed on the Son of God, in consequence of their preaching, had their sins remitted; and they who would not believe were declared to lie under condemnation.” (Adam Clarke) This perspective aligns with Jesus' earlier teaching in Matthew 18:20: "For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them." Here, the emphasis is on the collective authority of the Church community (that statement is about church discipline). In the same way, the Church is the means through which God's forgiveness is proclaimed. Some have described this as a declarative role rather than a judicial one. When the Church declares someone's sins forgiven, it's acknowledging a forgiveness that has already been granted by God.

[10] “This Gospel of the new Creation looks back at its close, as at its beginning (John 1:1), to the first Creation.” (Cambridge Bible For Schools And Colleges)

[11] The breathing of the Holy Spirit also recalls Jesus’ promise of the Spirit (John 16:7) and his earlier commissioning (Matthew 10). 

[12] “My Lord and my God,” echoes Psalm 35:23 and 86:15 – which is a God Creed verse 

[13] The version I heard was sung by Zach Williams and Dolly Parton.

[14] “In the context of worship, יִרְאָה is seen as a foundational element of faith, as illustrated in Proverbs 1:7, "The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge." This reverence is not only about acknowledging God's greatness but also about living in accordance with His commandments, as seen in Deuteronomy 10:12, "And now, O Israel, what does the LORD your God ask of you but to fear the LORD your God by walking in all His ways, to love Him, to serve the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul." (Topical Lexicon at biblehub.com)

[15] Some have noted that Jesus telling Mary not to cling to him may reflect a shift from her prior dependence to a new mission as a witness.

 

Harmony #78: Mary, Martha, and Jesus (John 11:55-12:11; Matthew 26:6-16; Mark 14:3-11; Luke 10: 38-42)

Have you heard the phrase, “Can’t see the forest for all of the trees?” Today’s passage has a lot of trees. We will look at them first, because those trees have something to offer, and then the forest, because the Big Picture matters.

Now the Jewish feast of Passover was near, and many people went up to Jerusalem from the rural areas before the Passover to cleanse themselves ritually. Thus they were looking for Jesus, and saying to one another as they stood in the temple courts,“What do you think? That he won’t come to the feast?” Now the chief priests and the Pharisees had given orders that anyone who knew where Jesus was should report it, so that they could arrest him.

Then, six days before the Passover, Jesus came to Bethany, where Lazarus lived, whom he had raised from the dead. While Jesus was in Bethany at the house of Simon the leper, they prepared a dinner for him there. Lazarus was among those present at the table with him. Martha was serving, distracted with all the preparations she had to make, while her sister Mary sat at the Lord’s feet and listened to what he said. Martha came up to him and said, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do all the work alone? Tell her to help me.”

But the Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things, but one thing is needed. Mary has chosen the best part; it will not be taken away from her.”

This incident apparently happens after Lazarus was raised from the dead. Martha is doing what anyone would do who had a distinguished guest: seeking to honor him by taking care of him. I mean, HE RAISED HER BROTHER FROM THE DEAD.

This was crucial. When Jesus talks with her, his approach suggests he is not mad or scolding. He may even be saying, “I see how much you are worried about honoring me well.” Mary “chose the best part,” as if what Martha chose was good, but not the highest good in that moment.[1]

Today, we might reference a personality test or a love language test to explain their different responses to Jesus. “Oh, Martha is acts of service. Mary is quality time.” Jesus, who knows how to love well, speaks their love language.  What did Jesus give Mary? Quality time. What did and will Jesus give Mary in raising Lazarus and dying on the cross? Acts of service. So I don’t think this is a blanket criticism of Martha. There’s something about the moment, the timing, the opportunity right in front of her.

I wonder if this has something to tell us about “be with” Jesus contrasted with “do for” Jesus. Both are good, but neither is a template for every moment. In that moment, it was better to “be with.”

We must remember that there is a place for “be with” and “do for” as we follow Jesus. Both honor Jesus. Both have an important place. We want to be with Jesus and live for Jesus, right? He’s going to give all the disciples marching orders when he leaves; he’s already sent them out on short missions. “Do for” is a good thing, but it’s not the only thing, and it can’t be isolated from “be with.”

It’s hard not to judge when we see others leaning into one approach when we really like the other. Martha thinks Mary should be “doing for” Jesus just like her, but that wasn’t true. Mary was in the right place. It’s easy to think the focus we choose (doing or being) is THE RIGHT WAY FOR EVERYBODY, but…we don’t know that to be true.


Sometimes, I need to do things for my wife: the dishes, put away my laundry, fix that sink, make smoked wings for the Ohio State game, give her my receipts from Menards so we can get that 11% back. Sometimes, I need to just be with her: watching The Great British Bake-off together, going on a date, collecting rocks at Point Betsie, going to the fair, watching Florida State football so she has a shoulder to cry on.

Both matter.

“Be with” and “do for” are intertwined when you love somebody. So, I think Mary and Martha show us two legitimate responses to Jesus. I wish I knew where to land this plane, but I don’t. Maybe this is a good topic to pursue during lunch today.

Then Mary came with an alabaster jar[2] of three quarters of a pound of expensive aromatic oil from pure nard.[3]After breaking open the jar, she poured it on his head[4] and anointed his feet, as Jesus was at the table. She then wiped his feet dry with her hair. (Now the house was filled with the fragrance of the perfumed oil.)

The Jewish people put nard on those who died to mask the smell, because there was a process of interring the body that lasted long enough to make you want to use nard. In the next paragraph, Jesus will affirm that she was, indeed, preparing him for his burial.[5]

Worth noting: nard in an alabaster jar like this was shipped in from a place that harvested (?) the nard before bottling it and sealing it. This bottle cost a year’s average wages. This bottle represented a plan for someone in the family of Mary. I wonder if it was what they had planned to use for Lazarus, but then didn’t need to. Or… Jesus will say shortly of Mary, “She did what she could.” I wonder if this was set aside for her?

And wiping his feet with her hair? It was unheard of for a Jewish woman to let her hair down in public, let alone wash the feet of a man not her husband, let alone with her hair. There is something going on here, but I am still working on this. This is the second time a woman has dried Jesus’ feet with her hair. (Luke 7)[6]

Whatever the case, Mary communicated something important: she believed Jesus when he said he was going to die. I doubt she anticipated crucifixion, as Jesus was not a Zealot, but she may have been connecting the dots and concluding that she wouldn’t be able to do this later. As Jesus points out, she was honoring him while she could.

Out of love, honor and the knowledge that “the end” was near for Jesus, she offered the lock of her hair with willing abandon to the one who is about to die in order to win the battle on behalf of a world that God loves. Bless the Lord.

But some who were present indignantly said to one another, “Why this waste of expensive ointment? It could have been sold at a high price and the money given to the poor!” So they spoke angrily to her. Judas Iscariot, one of his disciples (the one who was going to betray him) said, “Why wasn’t this oil sold for three hundred silver coins and the money given to the poor?” (Now Judas said this not because he was concerned about the poor, but because he was a thief. As keeper of the money box, he used to steal what was put into it.)

When Jesus learned of this, he said to them, “Leave her alone. Why are you bothering her? She has done a good service for me. For you will always have the poor with you,[7] and you can do good for them whenever you want. You will not always have me! She did what she could. When she poured this oil on my body, she did it to anoint my body beforehand and prepare me for the day of my burial. I tell you the truth, wherever this gospel is proclaimed in the whole world, what she has done will also be told in memory of her.”

In Matthew’s account of this story, Jesus had just taught them about reward and punishment related to caring for the needy (25:3146). He concluded with, “Whatever you do to the least of these you do to me.” So it makes sense this was in the front of the disciple’s minds.

Jesus’ response pointed them back to the Torah. They were commanded to take care of the poor; Deuteronomy 15 uses the exact phrase Jesus used. This would probably remind them of not just all the teaching in Deuteronomy 15, but of all the times God told his people to care for the poor. It was baked into the rhythm of their lives. In fact, if they did everything the Old Testament commanded, it would be difficult for someone to remain poor in Israel.

  • debts were forgiven every 7 years (Deuteronomy 15)

  • land was returned every 50 years (Leviticus 25)

  • food was shared (Proverbs 22:9)

  • indebted servants were set free with provision after 7 years (Deuteronomy 15)

  • the edges of their fields were left for the poor to harvest (Leviticus 23:22)

  • fields were unplanted every 7 years so the poor could harvest volunteer plants (Leviticus 25)

  • they were to “open their hand wide” to the poor (Deuteronomy 15:11)

  • they were to practice generous giving (Psalm 37:21; Proverbs 14:21)

Bottom line: the disciples were not wrong in principle,[8] but in this moment they were wrong in practice. If Mary was preparing him for burial, she should not be criticized any more than we would criticize someone for purchasing a coffin for a loved one, even though there are poor that could be fed with that money.

Then one of the Twelve—the one called Judas Iscariot—went to the chief priests and asked, “What are you willing to give me if I deliver him over to you?” So they counted out for him thirty pieces of silver. From then on Judas watched for an opportunity to hand him over.

This is when Judas snaps. Different people have offered different reasons since the text leaves space to fill in the blanks.

  • I noted last week that I suspect Judas was looking to spark an insurrection. Jesus has apparently resigned himself to die. Dead men can’t be kings. Let’s get this king on the throne before he dies!  Time to start the fight!

  • Or….Judas knows Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead. Huge crowds were there because the word had gotten out. Maybe Judas thought there was nothing to worry about. Get the fight started; Jesus will be fine!

  • Or… Judas betrayed Jesus because he had stopped believing in him. Something about what happened here convinced him not to back Jesus anymore.

 Whatever the reason, it’s interesting that this is incident that is the last straw for Judas. Meanwhile, the 30 pieces of silver he received has precedence.

  • Exodus 21 demands this as payment if a slave is gored to death by a bull. So, perhaps we could think of this as the Sadducees giving Judas recompense for the person they are about to kill.

  • 30 pieces of silver was also the wage paid to the reliable shepherd of God’s people in Zechariah 11,[9] a passage that also talks about throwing the money to a potter. Hmmm. 

These Old Testament connections are, in fact, both true.  Jesus is a duolos, a servant or slave depending on the translation you use. 

[Jesus], being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant/slave (duolos), being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death, even death on a cross! (Philippians 2) 

And, Jesus is a shepherd. 

“I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me, just as the Father knows me and I know the Father—and I lay down my life for the sheep.” (John 10:14-15) 

Alright, let’s step back from the trees and look at the forest. There is this nagging voice in my head that insists there is a contrast going on, not of a good and bad thing but of a good and better thing. I’m not quite sure how to put words to it.

  • The place for the practical (Martha) and the prophetic (Mary)

  • The practice of stewardship by fasting (taking care of the poor) and feasting (honoring and celebrating)

  • The ‘do for’ (Martha) and the ‘be with’ (Mary)

  • Prudence (provision budgeted for charity) and extravagance (provision budgeted for honoring)

I wonder if we are supposed to be reminded that in the midst of a discipleship that is often characterized by prudence and the stewardship of fasting that includes setting up a budget from which we give generously from our resources to those in need, there is always going to be a place in the Kingdom of God for extravagant honor.[10] 

In this case, we see it bestowed on Jesus, and rightfully so. In Mary’s case, it’s an act of worship for Jesus. The King will be honored as a King. Bless the Lord with the best that you have. We can’t honor the physical Jesus like Mary did, but surely this challenges us to ask ourselves if Jesus is honored by the worshipful sacrifices that we do give.

I wonder if we are supposed to be thinking about how to honor the children of the King, too. We can become so caught up in fixing what’s broken in the world that we forget to celebrate what’s right in the world. Like Mary and Martha, this is not either/or. It’s both/and.  

God wants his people to learn how to honor what is good through celebration. God wants his people to know how to throw a righteous party that reminds people that they are precious, valuable and loved, not only by God but by God’s people.

  • When I turned 50, friends threw me a party that was wonderfully extravagant. I still think about it. I have posters on my wall from it.

  • I have helped friends with projects this summer, and they paid me wages that made me consider that I had undervalued myself.

  • I have friends who bless us from their abundance by letting us stay for free in a wonderful Air B and B that brings us rest.

Helping those who are financial impoverish matters. Generous charity should be baked into the rhythm of our lives. But at times, extravagant celebration can be huge for those who are emotionally and mentally impoverished, struggling with all kinds of inner battles, desperately needing provision and rest of a different kind.

It’s the one to whom Jesus said, “Come to me, all you who are weary and heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” The Holy Spirit ministers in ways we never could; sometimes, gifts that cost time and money remind people that they matter not just in God’s eyes but in the eyes of God’s people. And some days, that’s a game changer, maybe even a life saver.

During our potluck, let’s feast together today in a way that shows the depth and breadth of God’s provision. Let the abundance of food remind us that we all need to experience an abundance of honor, or friendship, of community that reminds us constantly of the value of the imago dei, the image of God in us all.

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[1] “Chosen the good part—not in the general sense of Moses' choice (Heb 11:25), and Joshua's (Jos 24:15), and David's (Ps 119:30); that is, of good in opposition to bad; but, of two good ways of serving and pleasing the Lord, choosing the better.” (Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary)

[2] “The vessel is likely a long-necked flask made of translucent, finely carved stone standing some five to ten inches high. The perfume is pure nard (see Mark 14:3John 12:3), an oil extracted from the root of the nard plant grown in India. This is not a typical household oil for anointing, but an expensive perfume oil used for a solemn and special act of devotion. By breaking the flask Mary…is performing the highest act of consecration to Jesus, even to the anointing of his feet (cf. John 12:3).” (Zondervan Illustrated Bible Backgrounds of the New Testament)

[3] An average year’s wages.

[4] “Such long-necked containers have been found in tombs from this period near Jerusalem; people apparently lavished the ointment on deceased loved ones. This expensive perfume may have been planned for a funeral, either a future one or one canceled because of Jesus’ healing ministry. Providing a guest with oil to anoint his head could be simple courtesy, but one could also anoint a king in this way (2Ki 9:6).” (NIV Cultural Backgrounds Study Bible)

[5] “The anointing…"prepares" him for his burial after dying the death of a criminal, for only in that circumstance would the customary anointing of the body be omitted.” (Expositor’s Bible Commentary) 

[6] Because so much of Jesus’ life and teaching refers back to the Old Testament, here’s a thought. Judges records that after a woman named Jael killed the Canaanite general who was attacking Israel, the Israelites defeated Canaan. The judge at the time, Deborah, and her general, Barak, wrote this song: “When the locks of the women are long in Israel, when the people offer themselves with willing abandon - bless the LORD!  –Judges 4:18–5:2”  Read more at “Extravagant Worship: Mary Washing Jesus’ Feet.” Fruitfullywomen.com

[7] “There will always be poor people in the land. Therefore I command you to be openhanded toward your fellow Israelites who are poor and needy in your land.” (Deuteronomy 15:11)

[8] This is how one of the early Church Fathers thought of this scenario. “If anyone had asked Christ before the woman did this, He would not have approved it. But after she had done it, He looks only to the gift itself. For after the fragrant oil had been poured, what good was a rebuke? Likewise, if you should see anyone providing a sacred vessel or ornament for the walls of the church, do not spoil his zeal. But if beforehand he asks about it, command him to give instead to the poor.” (John Chrysostom, quoted in the Orthodox Study Bible)

[9] I told them “If you think it best, give me my pay; but if not, keep it.” So they paid me thirty pieces of silver. And the Lord said to me, “Throw it to the potter”—the handsome price at which they valued me! So I took the thirty pieces of silver and threw them to the potter at the house of the Lord.” (Zechariah 11: 12-13)

[10] I’m thinking now of Ecclesiastes: “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: a time to be born, to die, to plant, to uproot, to kill, to heal, to tear down, to build, to weep, to laugh, to mourn, to dance, to scatter stones, to gather them, to embrace, to refrain from embracing, to search, to give up, to keep, to throw away, to tear, to mend, to be silent, to speak, to love, to hate, for war and for peace.”